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How Losing My Job Cost Me My Marriage – Why It Was The Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me

How Losing My Job Cost Me My Marriage – Why It Was The Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me

134 days after I got married, I lost my job.  134 days is a very short amount of time before being forced to deal with the harsh realities of the real world.  That line in your vows – “for richer or poorer” – was quickly put to the test. Spoiler alert: we failed.  However, losing my job wasn’t the main reason why my marriage failed.  I will say, that although it may seem as though this is not a happy…

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Neighbors Helping Neighbors Get That Next Job – Read More Now

Neighbors Helping Neighbors Get That Next Job – Read More Now

Below is an excerpt of John Fugazzie’s interview for Escape from Unemploymentville: As I kept applying for jobs, we have what we call the black hole where you just send resumes and you never hear back from anybody. Basically, as I was finding it more and more difficult, I really started to try and figure out what’s different and what is the solution. I went to a networking group. Some lady had started a networking group.  She had four, five friends…

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Unable to Work, Battling Depression… My Story

Unable to Work, Battling Depression… My Story

Throughout my working life, becoming unemployed had always been one of my biggest fears, and one that fear turned into reality when I was forced to give work up due to ill health. When it happened, it couldn’t have been at a worse time. With declining health and mobility, and my doctor saying a firm “No” to going out to work, getting another job seemed impossible. All I could see was a lifetime ahead of me of claiming benefits, and…

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Hate Cold Calling? What You Might Be Missing

Hate Cold Calling? What You Might Be Missing

A doctor’s note ended my career as a professional guitarist and informed me that I could lift nothing heavier than a bottle of milk. The same month, a note from my father cut me off from his medical aid and left me and my family hanging in the balance. Now what the hell were we supposed to do? “Write again.” was my wife’s answer. It had been at least five years since I’d last picked up a pen and most…

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Surviving Marriage Without A Job

Surviving Marriage Without A Job

I’ve been unemployed for the entire duration of my marriage. If that sounds harsh, it’s even harsher to write it down. These past six months have been long, longer than I care to remember. Some days my spirits were up, while other days they’d seemed to have disappeared completely.  But no matter how ashamed I’ve felt, how hopeless or frustrated, there hasn’t been a time that I’ve let it get in the way of my marriage. My wife makes all…

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Can Some Degrees Make You Unemployable?

Can Some Degrees Make You Unemployable?

I always wanted to be a university English professor but by my senior year of college, the unemployment rate in the field was 99%. The words a Dean said to me a few years before came back to haunt me. It was at a freshman “Meet Your Professors” event where I introduced myself to the Dean of Arts and Sciences. I told him my major and he replied laughingly that I would be “Highly unemployable!” I thought he was rude…

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